well, from what i have seen it is the actuall site..
Let me allow more bandwidth to the site and see what happends.. I will also check some mysql processes out, and i have something for apache that i will also think will help out..
Keep giving me reports.
This seems to be the only site with this prob...
I am also hosting forums.empirequest.com which is a heaver trafic site then this.. whith no such probs.. So you all go over their and tell me if their are issues of their cause non of the 2,789 users over their complaign about any of these issues.