Well...my wife is good-looking (obviously she isn't the smartest person, cause I conned her into marrying me
). Looks do matter, but you shouldn't get hung up on them (he who obsesses about looks, obsesses alone!). Go for the total package (so she won't have all the options you're looking for, so what. As long as she has most of them, bonus).
Remember...follow your heart. Don't listen to us...we either already have our love or we can't get our love...either way, we are not qualified to speak on your love life, only you can.