Okay although KP offered excellent assistance my Courier-MTA still sucks.

I am now in search of....
A pretty easily installed/configured Mail server that will allow me to send email using my domain name ie me@mydomain.com and also to allow for others (I host MUDS) to use theirname@mydomain.com.

Since I am really STUPID please don't try to offer a program that takes a Master's degree to work.

The problem with Courier-MTA is I am stuck at that sh perftest1 1000 user-test blah blah...

After 3 hours on an athalon 900 I still had zero messages anywhere.

Perhaps since I have it installed if someone can get me over this hump I will keep it.