this seems to be the thing that most people seem to pick at about psyche.
i don't use kde, haven't since 3.0 so i can't comment on the bluecurve theme for it, but i absolutley _love_ the gtk2 one. its flat, boring and not like windows.( im not really a frilly person ;D ;D )
its super easy to change the theme... you er.... changee the theme... :-\ :-\ :-\
any why is it windows like? it is _really_ handy for newbies, and more advanced people don't have to use it.