well I have gentoo upand running ...sort of

when I am root I can start fluxbox but when I try as a user it will not work :'(

I keep getting this

Code:
Xlib: connection to ":0.0" refused by server
Xlib: InvalidMIT-MAGIC-COOKIE-1 key
giving up.
xinit: unable to connect to X server
xinit: No such process (errno 3): Server error.
TIA
Michael

EDIT: now it says I am not in the portage group :'(

EDIT2: xdm was causing all the problems so now I just login using the CLI now