The downsides about your friends who have B/Fs..

[TeRG]

So im talking to this friend online, and then she is like "oh im just hanging out with cameron and tony..speaking of which, they want to talk to you" and then whoever it was got on the computer..maybe her, maybe she wasnt even there, maybe him -- i can never tell with her..but threatened to "hospitalize" me because I was "hitting on his g/f and stalking her", a person i have never really been interested in. he proceeds to threaten me and call me racist names..and then i said that i dont have time for it, if she has a problem with how i act, (and belive me, i dont even see her but once or twice a week, and i do not hit on her).. and then they said "i have a feeling if i ever see you its gunna be you on an abulance going to the hospital"

now, i dont feel threatend by it..but im wondering how to take it..the conversation is too innapropriate to post here, but i would be willing to send it to anybody who might have a second oppinion about it...but how is one supposed to deal with this?

[mojo jojo]

She could be playing with you to see how you recat but that just mean.

If this guy keeps this up talk with the girl and find out what his problem is with you, and talk to him to resolve this issue.

But what ever you do try not to get him really mad unless you can fight or have a 4x4

[TeRG]

[quote author=The Great Mojo Jojo link=board=14;threadid=8397;start=0#msg76154 date=1073008233]
She could be playing with you to see how you recat but that just mean.

If this guy keeps this up talk with the girl and find out what his problem is with you, and talk to him to resolve this issue.

But what ever you do try not to get him really mad unless you can fight or have a 4x4


[/quote]

fighting is a LAST resort, and i may be a geek..but i can hold my ground.

the interesting thing is, after i posted this..she added me to a different msn name..for what reason i dont know, she hasnt said anything. part of me wonders if he feels threatened..or what..but if she really does have a problem with me, its realy low to have him threaten me...whatever.

[update]
message recieved from the new name:
"i'll give u a million dollars to kill yer self "

though i didnt respond -- i have no desire to

[mojo jojo]

Just leave here if shes being like that.

[TeRG]

I didnt respond to that one, the name signed off. though i would like to figure out whats bothering her, i have a feeling i will have to wait till monday

[rwtoften]

TeRG, sorry to hear about girlfriend(boyfriend woes). What is with guys that don't allow their female friends to be friends with other males? If I was you I'd b/u abit and take a look at your relationship with her! Is it worth going through this crap or not? Apparently she has said something to her man to get him upset at you for what ever reason! (I think females are like that)
Remember I just went through the same thing. Good luck in your quest for the answer!

[TeRG]

thats just it..i dont know if its him overreacting, or her uncomfortable around me..i need to talk to her..in person.

[rwtoften]

Yes, that would be the best way, that way you get to see her body language etc. to see if she speaks the truth!

[TeRG]

yeah.

otherwise, i refuse to fight...im not a fighting type, ill just leave it be if she is bothered by me...but it is funny how she runs to me when she is having issues with him..maybe thats why he treated me like he did..maybe he found out that..

[rwtoften]

That's why he might be mad at you, you're her man when she needs advise from the male side of things. (jealously creeping in) on her boyfriends side of things, watch yourself bud!